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 Don’t Worry - You Can, and WILL Survive This Divorce and be Happy Once More in Weeks, not Years!
From: Kyle MorrisonRe: Men After DivorceFriday 26th May 2011 Dear Friend, I know how bad you must feel right now. The anger, the pain, the sadness, the feelings of uselessness and emasculation, and if you have kids, the pain of being separated from them while having the world look down at you like you are a bad father and husband - no matter what the truth of the matter is! This is life after divorce for men like us. I also know just how little help there seems to be in this situation as well. Even your closest friends can be of no emotional help and might even appear distant and loathe to engage you on these issues. Sometimes your entire friend network can be ripped asunder by the divorce as well making these limited points of social contact much more difficult to obtain! No matter what people might think - it is tough, it aggravating, and it is depressing! Even worse than that are the frightening statistics and facts about divorced men such as:
Perhaps Some of These Seem Familiar to You? Now listen, I don’t bring these things up to further depress you or make you feel bad in any way, but I did want to make sure I understand your plight because I have been there too and I have researched it myself. The other reason is to make sure you know what you could be leaving behind. Not your marriage of course – all the fallout from the divorce I mean. At this stage you might be struggling to live day to day and just want to feel a little better than the day before. Most men end up slowly recovering to a point where they are functional again, but have simply learned to live with regret and develop a certain bitter resentment that bubbles below the surface. You know what – I don’t want this to happen to you! I Want You to Dare to Dream a Little!That’s right - dream. Think well beyond the misery of today and what you really want out of life! Now I know what you might be thinking. “Sounds great – but I can hardly cope with today and dealing with the hassles of tomorrow – how can I look beyond that now?!” or maybe you are stuck at “All I want is my wife and family back to the way it was!” Common thoughts - ones I have experienced myself in fact. I know first hand that it is hard, but it CAN be done and the benefits are enormous! Imagine this:
Is This What You Want in Your Life?If so, I want to help you achieve these things, and I want to help by giving you access to the information that will guide you on this journey because from years of suffering, experience and self searching, combined with months of research into the psychological reasons why we suffer so much as men after divorce - I have compiled what you need to know to thrive after divorce not just survive Introducing: Men After Divorce - The Complete Guide for Post Divorce Recovery The most comprehensive and revolutionary guide to completely overcoming the deep psychological causes of emotional anguish in men after divorce, along with practical advice for men recovering from divorce, and how to get on with life afterwards! I know what you are thinking – “This sounds too good to be true” – and a few years ago I might have agreed with you too! So let me cut to the chase … Before I released this book on this site I offered it for free to just 100 guys who found their way to my site, desperately looking for some help and advice, so they could cope with pos-divorce life. I wanted to make sure this was not just me having some ego trip and wanted real, honest, brutal feedback – this is just some of the comments I received: “Really Insightful”
Peter - New York “Life changing”
Charles - Ontario “Thank you”
Thank you for your excelent advise. Your book was like finding a sturdy rope to hang onto. I,m in the proccess of climbing out of this dreadfull hole. Alfonso This is Your Chance to Get Your Life Back!
“Great to have a male view and support”
I think your book is a good starting point for guys in my position and it gives us some really good things to think about ... i currently am going to a counselor and my wife is not but i am doing it more for me and the future than anything else. I have been trying to read as much as i can find on the subject but most of the things written or talked about are geared for the women, so it is great to have a male view and support. John “Worked for me!”
Your e-book really worked for me! I was vry skeptical and thought I would be wasting my money. But it allowed me to see everythign including my ex-wife and my divorce and a lot of other things in a totally new light! Ramesh - Indiana Divorce is NOT The End of Your Story!Divorce is the start of a whole new brighter chapter with you now tempered in the furnace of life and stronger for it. To help you adjust to your new life and achieve these things, these are some of the things that you will learn how to do
Imagine Your Life Being Happily DivorcedIt sounds like a ridiculous concept right? Happily divorced, two words that seem cannot co-exist together and yet there are so many men who are happy with their new life after divorce; even if they went through hell to get there! Imagine waking up each day positive, full of energy and ready for the day ahead. Imagine having children who are happy and yourself being a good father despite their parents split. Imagine having direction and purpose in life that can never be shaken. Imagine being free from destructive relationships. Imagine being in control of your own destiny, your own mind, and your own emotions. This is what you can do if you act now. “Just in time”
Thank you for your timely help. I was close to breaking down from all this pressure and shit that life was throwing at me. I didn't want to be like my mates who had been divorced and i dont think i will after reading your book. This came just in time for me, thanks! Callum - Newcastle How to Get StartedGetting started on changing your post-divorce life with Men After Divorce - The Complete Guide for Post Divorce Recovery is very easy. The cost for this comprehensive guide is just Even though the the cost is very reasonable (The cost of a bottle of wine or a decent meal), here is what's really important. If this was just a motivational booklet that might provide a brief moment of inspiration but offer no LASTING solutions to your dilemma, you would feel frustrated and ripped off no matter what the price was. However, if you can feel a dramatic change in how you view the world and how you handle your emotional turmoil, what is that worth to you? If you can look back on your day and know that you have been a good man and a good father despite your situation, what is that worth to you? If you can wake up and see unlimited potential instead of a dead end every day ... and start achieving that potential! What is this really worth to you? I believe that it is very hard to place a price tag on these things. I do believe however that compared to living through years of uncertainty, emasculation, depression, and low self esteem, spending a paltry So, to stop the soul crushing post-divorce troubles that plague you, the quickest and easiest way is to use a secure order for the digital download of this guide. You will get instant access to the complete E-Book which you can immediately download and and act upon right away now matter hat the time is right now!
If you are seeing this message then a limited time offer is still in place with the cost of this life changing guide being just $37. The cost of advertising on the internet is getting higher though so this will not last. Get you copy now and secure this bargain! Not only this, but I am offing an IRON CLAD 60 Day Money Back Guarantee. We stand behind our product 100%. Receive a NO questions asked, complete refund within 60 days if you are not totally satisfied with your purchase I Want to Make This Guarantee Totally Clear I have 100% confidence in my product so you can download this E-Book and you have a full 60 days to read it, implement it and be amazed by the results. In this time you can get a NO questions asked complete refund if you choose. I am sure that once you start feeling empowered, happy, and free of post divorce depression you will not need to do this! Order "Men After Divorce" Now!
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So remember, all you have to lose by getting this guide is the guilt, the bad memories, the low self esteem, and the general emotional turmoil of post divorce life. You will gain all the advice and information that you need to end this cycle of self destruction and build a better, brighter future in just weeks and not YEARS like so many other men. Not only this, but the same processes you learn in this guide will give you a framework on how to deal with any type of grief. It will also help you to maintain happiness and positive frames of mind no matter what life throws at you. All this at no risk & everything to gain! >Please Feel Free To Comment and Ask Questions!
Kyle Morrison - Men After Divorce Author Hi Matt, I understand that gut-wrenching feeling all too well. I also understand your scepticism of self help books - especially on the internet. While I want to get you excited by the possibilities that can come from implementing the teachings in my E-book in my sales letter we all know there is no magic bullet to changing your entire way of life when it comes to divorce and separation. What I do want to say is that the concepts in this book are based on sound psychology that will help you change over time to be the person you want to be and the men who have reviewed this book have all been extremely forthcoming with praise in the results it has given them. If you follow the process of understanding your own subconscious mind and implement the mental tricks offered in the book then you will find your actions and moods over time normalising and a new understanding of your life and purpose will evolve. In fact this can be used for many other parts of life not just recovering from divorce! This is because the power to do this is within YOU, my guide will simply teach you how to unlock this potential. Furthermore, the 100% money back guarantee is rock solid. If you do not feel any better from the teachings form this book then I do not want you to be out of pocket in any way and will refund your money in a few days - but i am certain you will not need to! Best of luck Matt. Not just from myself, but from all the divorced guys who have been through the same horrid situation as yourself and have lived to tell the tale. Robin David Kyle Morrison - Men After Divorce Author Hi David, All of us divorced guys really feel for you, we have all been in similar places from various circumstances. All that stress and worry will affect your physical health too, your immune system is very low right now as well because of it all so stay healthy ok. On the matter of moving on, this can be very tricky and it is different for every guy. Before you can ever have a proper relationship with another women you need to be right in your own head you see, but some relationships after divorce can be exceptionally good for you as well - though beware that many do not last. They are transitional. The bottom line is that if the marriage is not going to be saved then you have to move on from where you are. This is not an easy or short process btu I describe how you can go about it in my e-book. It is about your own sense of self that is most important, not what your ex or other people think. As for this new lady, I would be very honest with her about where you are emotionally. If you desperately need companionship do not shy away from it, but the battle is in your own mind first and foremost. Remember, the past is gone, you cannot change it, and therefore you cannot worry about it. The only thing you can affect is your own actions into the future. You will always feel emotional pain, but how you react to it is what makes you the man you want to be. Nadja Kyle Morrison - Men After Divorce Author Hi Nadja, The same loss of confidence, self esteem, and loss of identity as a father and husband can be found in men if they initiated the divorce or not. In fact, because of societies view of men and divorce, in either case, men receive a huge amount of pressure and negative reactions from the world at large. I knew a man who divorced an abusive and drug addicted wife and was labelled as a monster by some even though he did it to protect his children! I believe the content in my ebook will help your friend, but they must always be open to receiving some help. I did mainly aim it at men whose wife divorced them but the same ideas will help no matter who initiated if they are feeling the same experiences i mention on this page. If your friend is not happy with the book please feel free to enact the refund in 60 days also as I do not want you to be put out of pocket if we are not helping your friend - but if he gets something out of it then I hope we have both done our part to help a man in distress which is the most ignored part of society sometimes. Doug Kyle Morrison - Men After Divorce Author Hi Doug, It sounds like you have moved through a number of stages of grief which we all go through after divorce so well done! It sometimes does not matter how long we were married, that commitment made – if it was made with a heartfelt promise to yourself – changes how you see yourself. This massive shift in your perception of self becomes very painful when you are suddenly forced back out of it. So my advice to you is to concentrate on finding out who you really are and not focus on what you were. Do not focus on your ex-wife either, in fact, over time you will learn to forgive her and yourself because it will not influence your life any longer. Now is the time to work out who you really are, because having that firm sense of self worth and identity is key to divorce recovery. JERRY Kyle Morrison - Men After Divorce Author Hi Jerry, An amiable divorce as yours seems to be is anything but easy is it? In fact this is one of the worst kinds because clearly you are both still entangled with each others lives. This is a necessity when children are involved of course, but it seems to me that your focus is very much on her and not yourself. To be blunt, you cannot change her mind, you cannot change her actions. The only thing you can control in this awful time is yourself. Focusing on yourself is the only way to be able to move on and be happier. It is also the only way you are going to be a good father to your kids. I am not saying you should not love her - but you have to let her go. This is letting go of that denial that the marriage if over which is the first stage of divorce recovery. After this usually comes anger. From your post you might focus on all the help you have given her during her hysterectomy and other things, and of course the anguish she is causing her daughters. There are more stages, finally ending in forgiveness, but this takes time and an understanding of your own psychology. I hope that helps somewhat. It is impossible to be an online therapist for you - and you are seeing one anyway. As for buying my book, it is not a one shot cure for anything, but it is a process you can move towards with some very important and simple truths that we all must take into account. I want to help, which is why I have a refund policy - if you get it and think it is a pile of crap, get your money back. Email me even and i will lodge the request for you! This is a risk free method to get some self help. I wish you the best of luck Jerry. Betsy My best friend is going through a very difficult time as he deals with the stages of divorce. This Email book sounds perfect for him but he does not use the computer. Can i buy this online and print it out or is there a comparable hard copy that covers some of these topics? Let me know, thanks, Betsy Kyle Morrison - Men After Divorce Author Hi Betsy, I do not have the capability to produce a quality physical product, but you are very welcome to purchase this and print a copy out for your friend yes. As long as it is not distributed you are free to make a hard copy oft he e-book. I do hope it helps your friend through this rough period in his life. I have had a number of people purchase this book for other people and it seems to have helped in many cases. Enrique Kyle Morrison - Men After Divorce Author Hi Enrique, Thanks for sharing. I am sure your story is very similar to so many other men in a similar position who visit this site. I hope the book helps with these problems, but in addition to this I just wanted to say that when it comes to children it is better to be honest with them. They are smarter and more perceptive that we give them credit for most of the time and adjust quickly and well - if you lead the way by living well. Good luck! Terry Kyle Morrison - Men After Divorce Author Hi Terry, I am glad it has brightened your day! All the best. oniel Kyle Morrison - Men After Divorce Author Hi Oniel, There is so much to explain to you that it cannot fit in this little box here. Head over to the blog and start a conversation there, or get my guide which will show you exactly where these feelings truly come from - and how to combat them. Brenda Kyle Morrison - Men After Divorce Author Hi Brenda, At this stage the book is only available in an electronic format which should be viewable from most computers and mobile devices. Mitchell Kaplan My pain is overwhelmimg. Cry all the time. Can not get passed the pain. There really is no help out there. Just a mess. Miserly and pain are verwhelming. Please help me Kyle Morrison - Men After Divorce Author Hi Mitchell, All of us guys that have been through divorce know that feeling man. Do not think there is no help though. There are always freinds, support groups, and even an anonymous sympathetic ear online to hear you out and help you along. See my post about Cultivating Support Networks for Men After Divorce which might help. Feel free to join in the conversation on the blog as well. There is a whole community of men who know how hard it is and will be happy to share what helped them. Mike Armstrong Hello. My problem revolves around the good memories. We did so much together. There is never a day goes by that I'm not reminded of the wonderful times we had together. I was set in my mind that we would be together until the end. We never had harsh words. It was like a switch from loving wife to "we've grown apart". Grandchildren from her children is where she wanted to be. I hope your book covers that part of the solution to getting my life back.
Mike Armstrong Kyle Morrison - Men After Divorce Author Hi Mike, Memories both good and bad can plague us after divorce. The juxtaposition of the great memories and the terrible ending of the marriage is especially difficult to reconcile. The overarching theme of the book and methods of putting troublesome memories aside is covered in this guide. It requires more than just putting aside memories though - but that is all a part of the change of mental state and process you must go through to be healed. Wishing you the best of luck, David H Kyle Morrison - Men After Divorce Author Hi David, Anger and resentment are common and understandable, but as you are probably quite aware, it is a poisonous emotion that causes lasting problems in post-divorce life. I do touch on anger and resentment in the book along with the core psychological reasons why these issues and others feel so hard to let go of. I am sure it can help, and I really hope it does because a life lived with resentment is one that is not lived to its fullest! P.S. - Do not forget there is a 60 day money back guarantee that is enforced by clickbank and by myself! |
I found your divorce recovery guide to be really insightful and helpful. It made me realise how I was causing so much misery to myself. This has stopped now, thank you.
Hi Kyle, Your guide really got me out of a dark place that I felt trapped in. Some of the advice you give has been life changing, I am so glad you wrote this because so much of it is right on the money.
Matt
I am 9 months into a seperation and I feel it isnt getting any easier,I was a good father and looked after my family,now I am seen as a bad person by her family who were so close. I feel like I just want to be left alone. Your book looks good but I am sceptical of self help books. I am in therapy and I am trying my best but the pain grips you and the gut wrenching feeling wont go away.December 27th, 2010 - 10:15